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MOMs (Home) > Spouse > Spending Quality Time With Your Spouse Spending Quality Time With Your SpouseRemember in the beginning, there was just you and her/him? And as your fascination with each other settled into a sure thing, you both brought friends and relatives into your intimate circle, but the nucleus of that life, was still the two of you. Few of our lives ever stay that centered, or that intensely focused, and that is simply the natural progression of a maturing relationship and the lifestyle we have chosen. But it's still important to remember that the foundation of your marriage and partnership is the two of you - not the jobs, the new house, or the kids. That doesn't mean abandoning everything but your spouse, or living in each other's pockets. What it means is that along with the changes that happen to the two of you, including family, you need to stay in touch with the relationship that started it all. Making time for yourselves, isn't always easy. When both partners/parents are working, it can be particularly hard, because both come home tired, with chores waiting for them, and children clamoring for your attention. So how is it done? With careful planning, and determination. Prioritize some of the things in your life. Do you really need to be working all that overtime? Must you be the only parent to do the carpooling, volunteering, etc? Think of your life as a budget, with time allotted to the truly essential things first, like work, your children, and you as a couple. And make sure there is sufficient time for all of those, or go about making some changes. Relationships stagnate and lose their vibrancy, when they are buried beneath the everyday stresses of living. But you can unearth them and revive the flame!
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